Life goals

As most of you are probably aware, I’m a bit of a social media addict. Facebook, twitter, Instagram, pinterest, I’m on them all. I’ve moved house a ridiculous amount of times so it’s an easy way to stay in contact with everyone (plus I’m a bit of a nosey cow and I like keeping up to date on what’s going on. šŸ‘€)

One thing I absolutely cannot STAND though (and I’m seeing more and more often these days) is that people seem obsessed with so-called “relationship goals”. Everywhere I look there are people posting pictures of “cute” little couples doing perfectly average stuff like holding hands or hugging or something and everyone is all “omg relationship goals!!!!!!”

I don’t really understand this fixation everyone has on the perfect relationship (if such a thing exists, which it doesn’t). I find it pretty sad that people are more concerned about finding a boyfriend/girlfriend than they are about focusing on their own life goals, especially when the majority of my social media “friends” are under 30.

I’ve been doing some thinking about my own life goals and I think it’s important to have a plan as to how I’m going to achieve them. I wrote out a list of everything I want to do before I turn 30 which I thought I’d post here:

1. Become a qualified social worker – finished my access course last month and am waiting for the results. Can start applying for unis in September šŸ™Œ

2. Look like Taylor Vertucci (ha!) – I need to go hard on the weights for this, I’ve started eating seriously clean and will start going to the gym 3 times a week when my son starts nursery in September.

3. Cosmetic surgery – I’ve not kept it a secret that I’m planning to get a boob job and I’m debating lip fillers as well. Basically a case of saving every penny I can!

4. Learn to drive – I was spectacularly bad at this on the few lessons that I had but I realise it will probably be a necessity the older my son gets. I’m gonna leave it a year or two and then go back to it.

5. The most important one on my list: be the best mother I can possibly be! I hope I’m doing an OK job on this so far, it’s not always easy but definitely the most rewarding experience I’ve ever had.

These 5 things are what are important in my life. Anything else is just a bonus. So you guys can keep your “relationship goals” because I’ve got bigger plans than that. And I don’t plan to stop until I’ve got it all šŸ˜˜



  1. emmanuel solanke · June 5, 2015

    i love your perspectives!i love the narcissistic You trust me we are gonna share the spoils together lol


  2. emmanuel solanke · June 6, 2015

    am not your enermy alice,i was attracted by your blog.can we meet?i mean am coming the states next week for my step 2 cs usmle wat do u say?


  3. emmanuel solanke · June 6, 2015

    all i ever wanted was you alice nothing me what i’d do anything to get your not stalking u,am oly trying to be a frnd


  4. Emmystein · June 7, 2015

    am sorry i dont give up,i believe we can stii be friends.cant u just give me a chance?just a friend to will do


  5. Emmystein · June 7, 2015

    let me part of the great deeds happening in ur life by a friend to u alice.why do u keep refusing on giving me a chance?am i too stupid for u?or what?


  6. Emmystein · June 8, 2015

    i know u reading this,alice if its even “hi” per day i will be with that.just that,pls this is the least am asking of u just “hi emmy” tnx


  7. Emmystein · June 8, 2015

    say yes please,i’d be more than okay with that


  8. Emmystein · June 11, 2015

    Give me your number alice please


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